Thoughts

We always know people when we live with them..... people always behave differently with different people in different situations..... so never compare their treatments with your's....
there are two factors : 

1. how you treat others and what u expect from them

2. what they expect from you and what they get
is what decides their behaviour towards you....
 

SO NO ONE IS GOOD OR BAD.....its just that they are preffering things which suits them.... it doesnt tell anything about you solely....
neither we should judge them on the grounds of good or bad..... time decides that....

11 traits of being introvert :

1. You Enjoy Solitude

2. Dislike Small-talk, but enjoy in-depth conversations about topics that interest you.

3. People Say You Are A Good Listener

4. You like to think about and choose your words carefully before speaking

5. Dislike Conflict

6. You prefer to work alone and without interruptions

7. When stressed or need to recharge, you spend a few days alone by yourself.

8. Often express yourself through writing

9. People describe you as “soft-spoken” or “mellow”

10. You like people, just not all the time

11. You don’t normally like to take the lead, but will step up when no one else will.

its nothing wrong to be introvert....... its just a way of expressing yourself...

Govardhan Puja

4th Nov. 2013
(MONDAY)

 Govardhan Puja and Bali Pratipada

Most of the time Govardhan Puja day falls next day after Diwali Puja and it is celebrated as the day when Lord Krishna defeated God Indra. Sometimes there might be one day gap between Diwali and Govardhan Puja.

In religious texts, Govardhan Puja celebrations are suggested during Pratipada Tithi of Kartik month. Depending on starting time of Pratipada, Govardhan Puja day might fall one day before on Amavasya day on Hindu calendar.

Gowardhan Puja is also known as Annakut Puja. On this day food made of cereals like wheat, rice, curry made of gram flour and leafy vegetables is cooked and offered to Lord Krishna.

In Maharashtra the same day is celebrated as Bali Pratipada or Bali Padva. The day commemorates victory of Vamana, an incarnation of Lord Vishnu, over King Bali and subsequent pushing of Bali to Patal Lok (the underworld). It is believed that due to boon given by Lord Vamana, Asura King Bali visits the Prithvi Lok from the Patala Lok on this day.

Most of the time Govardhan Puja day coincides with Gujarati New Year day, which is celebrated on Shukla Paksha Pratipada of Kartik month. Depending on starting time of Pratipada Tithi, Govardhan Puja celebrations could be done one day before Gujarati New Year day.

Indo arebic Mehndi design

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Diwali best Laxmi Poojan Time

Choghadiya Table

Day Choghadiya	3rd November 2013 (Sunday)	Night Choghadiya
Udveg 06:38:24-07:59:55		Shubh -17:30:30 - 19:09:05
Chal -07:59:55 - 09:21:25		Amrit -19:09:05 - 20:47:39
Labh -09:21:25 - 10:42:56		Chal -20:47:39 -22:26:14
Amrit -10:42:56 - 12:04:27		Rog -22:26:14 - 24:04:49+
Kaal -12:04:27 - 13:25:58		Kaal -24:04:49+ -25:43:24+
Shubh -13:25:58 - 14:47:28		Labh -25:43:24+ -27:21:59+
Rog -14:47:28 - 16:08:59		Udveg-27:21:59+ -29:00:34+
Udveg -16:08:59 - 17:30:30		Shubh-29:00:34+ -30:39:09+

About Choghadiya Table
Choghadiya or Chogadia is used for checking auspicious time to start new work. Traditionally Choghadiya is used for travel muhurthas but due to its simplicity it is used for any muhurtha.
There are four good Choghadiya,Amrit,Shubh,LabhandChal, to start auspicious work.

Three bad Choghadiya,Rog,Kaaland Udveg, should be avoided.

The time between sunrise and sunset is called day Choghadiya and the time between sunset and next day sunrise is called night Choghadiya.

Check your Marriage Sucess

Here's a marrige Meter, Check your marrige by scaling your satistfaction.

On a scale of 1 – 10 rate your satisfaction with your marriage in the areas of:

1. Shared Values _____

2. Commitment to each other _____

3. Communication Skills _____

4. Conflict Resolution Skills _____

5. Intimacy/Sexuality _____

6. Spirituality/Faith _____

7. Money Management _____

8. Appreciation/Affection _____

9. Lifestyle _____

10. Recreation _____

11. Decision Making _____

12. Parenthood _____

13. Household chores / gender differences _____

14. Careers _____

15. Balancing Time_____

TOTAL: _____

Since this isn’t a test, but rather a map for you to use for further discussion, your total is not based on 100%. If your self-ratings on a specific topic are:

8-10: You are quite happy with this aspect of your marriage. This could be because you are generally an optimistic person and easy going, or you’ve been very intentional about working on your marriage.

4-7: You are sliding along in your marriage, perhaps not paying much attention to it or avoiding areas of conflict. It’s also possible that you have high expectations and are not an easy grader.

1-3: You are pretty dissatisfied with this aspect of your marriage. Check out the other areas of this Blog that address this topic.

Another way of assessing whether you need to pay more attention to certain areas of your marriage is by comparing answers with your spouse. If your ratings on any given topic differ by more than three points, you’ll want to discuss why.

Finally, if both you and your spouse have total scores of:

100 + Give yourself an A – but don’t get proud or complacent.

75-99 Give yourself a B – you’re in good shape and can pinpoint those areas you’ll want to discuss further.

50-74 Give yourself a C – You may have much to discuss or one of you may be more dissatisfied than the other. Check it out.

15-49 Looks like trouble. The fact that you are visiting this blog and have filled out this self-assessment, however, is a good sign. You haven’t given up; you want to make your marriage better. Now get to work on it. See a counselor or attend a program for perfect wedding life

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Mandna for diwali to decorate your chock of House

   Mandana is a traditional form of rangoli . In olden days when in village festival comes they use to decorate their house by cow dung cake . when it got dry they use to make designs with white and red color which looks so beautiful .How people use to make those designs with the help of oil paints in the house so that it can be for long time.

Laxmi Mata Calender for Diwali poojan

      As we know diwali is comming . And in every house on this day we use to worship Mata Laxmi. So as per requirement here  i am providing Mata Laxmi photo & Laxmi ji Aarti.

Those don't have Please download or save image .

Bonding between you and your hubby

Check your Bonding and love with your partner

Circle the values in column 1 that are most important to you. Consider that some values may initially appeal to you but upon deeper reflection (column 2) you realize that you don’t always hold them as a priority. Then rank them in importance from 1-14. Discuss with your fiancé(e) or spouse.

1. Honesty	Yes, but sometimes it’s OK to fudge.
2. Commitment	Sure, but some commitments are just too hard to keep.
3. Fidelity	I don’t plan on having an affair but who knows the future.
4. Loyalty	It might be necessary to violate a loyalty if another’s safety is at risk.
5. Devotion to parents	Parents are important, but spouse comes first.
6. Generosity	I’ll give, but only after I’ve taken care of myself.
7. Peacemaking	Sometimes evil needs to be confronted, even with violence.
8. Living simply	I work hard for my money. Why can’t I enjoy its rewards?
9. Kindness	Some people are too kind and others take advantage of them.
10. Self-control	I believe in being flexible and spontaneous, not being uptight.
11. Education	Education is over-rated. I wouldn’t sacrifice current wants for it.
12. Sacrifice	Suffering and delayed gratification have no use and are to be avoided.
13. Friendship	Friends are nice, but family and spouse are more important.
14. Children	I value my freedom more.

Mehndi for relatives in Marriage (Shadi)

For most people, marriage isn't about "discrimination". It is about cementing relationships through shared joy and mutual responsibility.

It is about reinforcing the bonds within and between families that define so much of who we are. It's about "for better and for worse".

This is particularly so for those social conservatives and people of faith whose support for marriage quality is essential if the Coalition is to have a conscience vote and more individual Coalition MPs are to be convinced to support reform — both pre-conditions for the passage of any legislation.

To even begin a dialogue with these groups, marriage equality supporters must show we value marriage as well as equality. 

Wedding special Mehndi Designs

The wedding and marriage were for us to express our love and commitment to everyone we care about.  It was a day to celebrate joy and our family and friends.  We had the wedding to make our commitment official and it was just that one more step to keep us accountable to what we promised.

     To me, Marriage means that we have decided to become a team, to navigate life together. By marrying each other, we are making a serious promise to place a very high value on the success of our team, to support, love, and encourage each other, to choose to make personal sacrifices for the good of our team, and to help each other accomplish our goals. Our wedding is a way of making these intentions known and giving ourselves some accountability. It also functions, however, as a celebration of our love and having found someone we want to commit to in this way. When gay marriage becomes legal, it is important for us to have the legal component as well, in order to better protect our relationship and our family.